We all want to be tempted by the irresistible temptation to achieve, but we don’t want to face what’s holding us back, and then we become a prisoner of our shortcomings between the lines.
“So how can we get caught up in the flow of success?” It’s a very frequently asked question. The answer is obvious; First you need to destroy these 10 toxic habits that are holding you back from the path of success:
1) Don’t Deify Those Who Achieved
We need a variety of people so that everyone can learn something. The point to worry about here; It is about positioning these people, whom you see as leaders, in the category of deities. You may have a lot of respect for these people, but remember that they are not you.
This life is just your journey and no one is living your journey. Of course, listen to other people’s experiences to help you. While doing this, keep in mind that the path to success is not the same for anyone.
2) Don’t Put Yourself Into Comparisons With ‘Compared To My Peers’
There is a part of them that hates their peers who started making money earlier. Although human beings naturally want to get what they do not have, do not allow comparisons in your brain. Use this energy more efficiently for yourself and focus on how you can improve your own performance compared to yourself.
3) Don’t Make Good Excuses Not to Try
Define what you want to change and try to change rather than give up. Don’t give up on buying a house because you have to pay a mortgage. Say ‘I wish’ instead of complaining about the situation that is causing difficulties. Do you remember that you desire your purpose? Now is the time to put your hand under the responsibility to achieve that goal.
4) Don’t settle for an overly modest plan
It has been observed that if people with one job believe they will play that role forever, they blunt their capacity to learn a new skill. Do you know what will happen if you never try, even if it is difficult? Fear of the unknown will grip you, and your belief that largely successful people are more talented than you will become limitless. Whereas they are just those who try harder for something. Put your mind to it, darken your eyes and take steps that you do not expect from yourself.
5) Stop Blaming Others
No one but you is responsible for your good or bad circumstances. Nobody. Deal with this fact.
6) Don’t Judge Others
“All rich people are definitely rich in family.”, “Poor people can’t find the opportunity, so it is more difficult for them to succeed.” Get rid of clichés and move forward.
7) Don’t Feel Obligated to Know All the Answers
When faced with a tough question, saying ‘I don’t know’ is the best thing you can do. Then go and look for the answer. You may not have all the answers, but if you are smart enough to surround yourself with people who motivate you, you will eventually find the right answers.
8) Don’t Get Lost in the Search for Perfection
On the way to success, you will definitely break some of the eggs in your hand. Nothing can be perfect or progress perfectly. Instead of crying about it, you can make an effort to complete it with the least mistakes.
9) Don’t Prioritize Your Comfort
During this journey, you will feel uncomfortable at times, insecure at times, and doubt yourself from time to time. You may feel panicked. Keep moving by reminding yourself often that this feeling is normal. The inconvenience won’t kill you, but whether it will prevent it is in your hands. Do not make yourself miserable so that you do not succumb.
10) Don’t wait!
There is never a perfect time to start a business or move on to the next challenge in your career.
Take the first step when you feel the need. Now!