{"id":174260,"date":"2022-01-29T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2022-01-29T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/?p=174260"},"modified":"2022-01-16T21:05:52","modified_gmt":"2022-01-16T18:05:52","slug":"discover-the-unbearable-lightness-of-saying-no-in-7-steps","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/en\/discover-the-unbearable-lightness-of-saying-no-in-7-steps","title":{"rendered":"Discover The Unbearable Lightness of Saying &#8216;No&#8217; in 7 Steps"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"line nText\">\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;No.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">This word, which has this meaning both in our language and in other languages and is very easy to say, is sometimes very difficult to express after an adventure of thought. Everyone wants to be compatible, to be loved by everyone, but we must do this without hurting our own self-esteem. We cannot please everyone at the same time. We don&#8217;t have to do that either. Every time we compromise ourselves to make others happy, we bid farewell to eternity with a piece of our self-respect.<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">Now is the time to learn to say &#8220;No&#8221; when appropriate. I&#8217;m not talking about saying &#8220;No&#8221; to everything and missing out on the amazing life experiences you&#8217;ll have. When appropriate, you can enjoy life more and increase your self-respect and confidence by saying \u201cNo\u201d to things you don&#8217;t want to do when you find it difficult to do. So how do we learn to say &#8220;No&#8221;?<\/div>\n<p><script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script><br \/>\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-layout=\"in-article\" data-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1787826683754973\" data-ad-slot=\"6687820096\"><\/ins><br \/>\n<script>\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script><\/p>\n<div class=\"line nHR\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">\n<h2>1) Decide on the importance of the topic.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"nImage coverImage\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/wp-content\/images\/post\/user-5\/uudjg0.jpg\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">Give a degree of importance to what you are doing now and the other issue you are asked to do. Which is more important?<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">If what you are doing now is more important, consider that doing the other will have negative consequences for you. This will lead you to the &#8220;no&#8221; answer.<\/div>\n<p><script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script><br \/>\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-layout=\"in-article\" data-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1787826683754973\" data-ad-slot=\"6687820096\"><\/ins><br \/>\n<script>\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script><\/p>\n<div class=\"line nHR\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">\n<h2>2) Set your limits.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"nImage\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/wp-content\/images\/post\/user-5\/0oatk5.jpg\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">Most people think that if they can do something, they should. This can tire you out. You may not find the time and energy to do everything yourself. Set limits for yourself. E.g; If you go out two nights in a row, you will get tired. You have plans for Friday, so you can say &#8220;no&#8221; to your friend who asked to go out on Saturday.<\/div>\n<p><amp-ad width=\"100vw\" height=\"320\" type=\"adsense\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1787826683754973\" data-ad-slot=\"5405056807\" data-auto-format=\"rspv\" data-full-width=\"\"><\/p>\n<div overflow=\"\"><\/div>\n<p><\/amp-ad><\/p>\n<div class=\"line nHR\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">\n<h2>3) Teach to do what is asked of you, do not do it.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"nImage\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/wp-content\/images\/post\/user-5\/fvilh2.jpg\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">You don&#8217;t have to do everything. You can teach some jobs to others. If someone is constantly asking you to do something, teach it. So you don&#8217;t have to say &#8220;no&#8221; all the time.<\/div>\n<p><script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script><br \/>\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-layout=\"in-article\" data-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1787826683754973\" data-ad-slot=\"6687820096\"><\/ins><br \/>\n<script>\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script><\/p>\n<div class=\"line nHR\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">\n<h2>4) Ask for some time to think.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"nImage\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/wp-content\/images\/post\/user-5\/py8f9b.jpg\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">If you are unsure of your answer, ask for some time to think. &#8220;I&#8217;ll think about it a bit, I&#8217;ll let you know.&#8221; you can say. If your answer is \u201cno\u201d, you can say it more confidently after some thought.<\/div>\n<p><amp-ad width=\"100vw\" height=\"320\" type=\"adsense\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1787826683754973\" data-ad-slot=\"5405056807\" data-auto-format=\"rspv\" data-full-width=\"\"><\/p>\n<div overflow=\"\"><\/div>\n<p><\/amp-ad><\/p>\n<div class=\"line nHR\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">\n<h2>5) Suggest alternative ideas.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"nImage\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/wp-content\/images\/post\/user-5\/4t52ri.jpg\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">\u201cYou can ask person X for help with this.\u201d You can soften your way of rejection by suggesting alternative ideas such as<\/div>\n<p><script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script><br \/>\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-layout=\"in-article\" data-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1787826683754973\" data-ad-slot=\"6687820096\"><\/ins><br \/>\n<script>\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script><\/p>\n<div class=\"line nHR\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">\n<h2>6) Remember, you are rejecting an offer, not one.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"nImage\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/wp-content\/images\/post\/user-5\/0h6ng8.png\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">Don&#8217;t feel guilty. Just as people have the right to ask you for something, you have the freedom not to do it. If you cannot do this, if you notify the other party in an appropriate language, you will not be unduly responsible.<\/div>\n<p><amp-ad width=\"100vw\" height=\"320\" type=\"adsense\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1787826683754973\" data-ad-slot=\"5405056807\" data-auto-format=\"rspv\" data-full-width=\"\"><\/p>\n<div overflow=\"\"><\/div>\n<p><\/amp-ad><\/p>\n<div class=\"line nHR\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">\n<h2>7) Be clear.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"nImage\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/wp-content\/images\/post\/user-5\/ls5iug.jpg\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">Do not deceive, do not delay. Do not hesitate to refuse. Sometimes saying \u201cno\u201d outright is less disappointing than distracting the other party.<\/div>\n<p><script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script><br \/>\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-layout=\"in-article\" data-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1787826683754973\" data-ad-slot=\"6687820096\"><\/ins><br \/>\n<script>\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script><\/p>\n<div class=\"line nHR\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">Getting used to saying &#8220;no&#8221; to requests that don&#8217;t suit you will make you feel better and more secure. You won&#8217;t have to wear yourself out to keep up with everything and please everyone. You will spend your time more productively for yourself and your work. 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