{"id":174036,"date":"2022-01-22T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2022-01-22T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/?p=174036"},"modified":"2022-10-28T19:21:13","modified_gmt":"2022-10-28T16:21:13","slug":"10-life-lessons-people-learn-from-critical-mistakes-in-their-twenties","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/en\/10-life-lessons-people-learn-from-critical-mistakes-in-their-twenties","title":{"rendered":"10 Life Lessons People Learn from Critical Mistakes in their Twenties"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"line nText\">Let&#8217;s be honest: Nobody likes to make mistakes and waste their time, energy and money. But mistakes can also be a teacher from our point of view; It can also create anxiety to move forward.<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">At this point, the pragmatist philosopher John Dewey has a thought:<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">\n<blockquote><p>\u201cThe person with a truly inquiring mind learns as much from his failures as from his successes.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">Learning from your mistakes does not happen automatically. You need to reflect on your mistakes and analyze your mistakes.<\/div>\n<p><script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script><br \/>\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-layout=\"in-article\" data-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1787826683754973\" data-ad-slot=\"6687820096\"><\/ins><br \/>\n<script>\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script><\/p>\n<div class=\"line nText\">Writer Darius Foroux recounted the lessons he learned from the mistakes he made in his twenties. Inspired by his way of thinking and the way he analyzes his mistakes, we too can reflect on our own mistakes:<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nHR\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">\n<h2>1) Don&#8217;t think you know everything. If you want to achieve something, you have to be humble.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"nImage\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/wp-content\/images\/post\/user-799\/96mltr.jpeg\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">Don&#8217;t be one of those people who think they know everything. I have met such people all the time in my life. It was because I was not one of them.<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">Every time you refuse to listen to someone you think is smarter than you and think they know everything to look smart, you&#8217;ve made the biggest mistake.<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">It&#8217;s time to put the <a class=\"wpil_keyword_link\" href=\"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/ego-nedir\"   title=\"ego\" data-wpil-keyword-link=\"linked\">ego<\/a> aside and learn that life isn&#8217;t all about influencing people.<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">If you want to achieve something, you have to be humble.<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">If you haven&#8217;t been humble yet, I have news for you. Life will make you humble at some point.<\/div>\n<p><amp-ad width=\"100vw\" height=\"320\" type=\"adsense\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1787826683754973\" data-ad-slot=\"9068969645\" data-auto-format=\"rspv\" data-full-width=\"\"><\/p>\n<div overflow=\"\"><\/div>\n<p><\/amp-ad><\/p>\n<div class=\"line nHR\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">\n<h2>2) Do not look for the cause of your own unhappiness in others.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"nImage\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/wp-content\/images\/post\/user-799\/mcezzs.jpg\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">Others took care of you when you were a child. Your parents, sibling, family members, foster family&#8230; This could be any person. Someone was always responsible for you.<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">But this is no longer valid. Now only you are responsible for yourself. So when you are unhappy, do not look for the source of it in others. That wouldn&#8217;t be fair to the people in your life.<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">Instead, accept your unhappiness and try to do something about it.<\/div>\n<p><amp-ad width=\"100vw\" height=\"320\" type=\"adsense\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1787826683754973\" data-ad-slot=\"9068969645\" data-auto-format=\"rspv\" data-full-width=\"\"><\/p>\n<div overflow=\"\"><\/div>\n<p><\/amp-ad><\/p>\n<div class=\"line nHR\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">\n<h2>3) Don&#8217;t waste your time with negative people.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"nImage\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/wp-content\/images\/post\/user-799\/kumr0l.jpg\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">It is a great luck that the people around you do not strive for the same things as you. At some point in my twenties, I was surrounded by completely negative people. I was surrounded by people who dropped out in college, who just wanted more free time, and had no goals.<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">Many people live their lives timidly and do not want to compromise their comfort. Stay away from people whose only expectation from life is to spend more time in front of the TV.<\/div>\n<p><amp-ad width=\"100vw\" height=\"320\" type=\"adsense\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1787826683754973\" data-ad-slot=\"9068969645\" data-auto-format=\"rspv\" data-full-width=\"\"><\/p>\n<div overflow=\"\"><\/div>\n<p><\/amp-ad><\/p>\n<div class=\"line nHR\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">\n<h2>4) Love is not what you think it is.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"nImage\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/wp-content\/images\/post\/user-799\/irmisb.jpg\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">You do not decide how the other person will act. You cannot even claim such a thing. If you cannot accept people as they are and shape your expectations according to you, you are making a big mistake.<\/div>\n<p><script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script><br \/>\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block; text-align:center;\" data-ad-layout=\"in-article\" data-ad-format=\"fluid\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1787826683754973\" data-ad-slot=\"3264820100\"><\/ins><br \/>\n<script>\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script><\/p>\n<div class=\"line nText\">It is called conditional love when you want the other person to live by acting according to you. Strive for the opposite. It&#8217;s hard to let go of your expectations about love. But you have to. Otherwise, you will never be happy in your relationships.<\/div>\n<p><amp-ad width=\"100vw\" height=\"320\" type=\"adsense\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1787826683754973\" data-ad-slot=\"9068969645\" data-auto-format=\"rspv\" data-full-width=\"\"><\/p>\n<div overflow=\"\"><\/div>\n<p><\/amp-ad><\/p>\n<div class=\"line nHR\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">\n<h2>5) Actually, you don&#8217;t have as much time as you think.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"nImage\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/wp-content\/images\/post\/user-799\/e68n0n.jpg\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">When you&#8217;re young, you think of yourself as in the middle of an endless sea of time. You can do anything you want. Isn&#8217;t it great?<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">You blinked and you&#8217;re celebrating your thirtieth birthday!<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">The matter is very simple. Ask yourself this question:<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\"> \u2022 How much of my time do I spend on things that will not bring me the happiness of inner satisfaction?<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\"> \u2022 Do I like my current job? How much time do I spend on my job?<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\"> \u2022 Do I love the people in my life? How much time do I spend on them?<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">The answers to these questions will give you an idea of how valuable your time is.<\/div>\n<p><amp-ad width=\"100vw\" height=\"320\" type=\"adsense\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1787826683754973\" data-ad-slot=\"9068969645\" data-auto-format=\"rspv\" data-full-width=\"\"><\/p>\n<div overflow=\"\"><\/div>\n<p><\/amp-ad><\/p>\n<div class=\"line nHR\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">\n<h2>6) A friendly reminder: You&#8217;re probably not as great as you think.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"nImage coverImage\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/wp-content\/images\/post\/user-799\/fadnyl.png\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">There will always be someone who is smart, strong, cool, good-looking, better than you in certain subjects. Always.<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">So stop thinking you&#8217;re great at everything. What makes you think you&#8217;re awesome? This indicates that you are constantly comparing yourself to others. Just be yourself and don&#8217;t compare yourself to others.<\/div>\n<p><amp-ad width=\"100vw\" height=\"320\" type=\"adsense\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1787826683754973\" data-ad-slot=\"9068969645\" data-auto-format=\"rspv\" data-full-width=\"\"><\/p>\n<div overflow=\"\"><\/div>\n<p><\/amp-ad><\/p>\n<div class=\"line nHR\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">\n<h2>7) There is no end to learning.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"nImage\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/wp-content\/images\/post\/user-799\/puh7ir.jpg\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">The moment you stop improving and learning, you are dead. I am not kidding. I stopped learning when I left university. Guess what happened? Two years later, my life turned into a mess.<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">Challenge yourself to learn something new every day. If you&#8217;re not getting better, you&#8217;re getting worse.<\/div>\n<p><amp-ad width=\"100vw\" height=\"320\" type=\"adsense\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1787826683754973\" data-ad-slot=\"9068969645\" data-auto-format=\"rspv\" data-full-width=\"\"><\/p>\n<div overflow=\"\"><\/div>\n<p><\/amp-ad><\/p>\n<div class=\"line nHR\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">\n<h2>8) Achieving difficult things gives you more satisfaction.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"nImage\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/wp-content\/images\/post\/user-799\/1zjz8d.png\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">Do you run away from difficult things? Don&#8217;t get used to it. Force yourself to improve, to save, to do sports, to help others.<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">Remember that accomplishing hard things will always return more in your life. Try to experience early the feeling of success in a subject that requires a lot of effort. It can be going to the gym when you don&#8217;t want to go to the gym at all, or it can be any good thing you do by pushing yourself.<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">Feel as much as possible the unrivaled sense of accomplishment and pride this situation brings.<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">Remember that the same goes for your career.<\/div>\n<p><amp-ad width=\"100vw\" height=\"320\" type=\"adsense\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1787826683754973\" data-ad-slot=\"9068969645\" data-auto-format=\"rspv\" data-full-width=\"\"><\/p>\n<div overflow=\"\"><\/div>\n<p><\/amp-ad><\/p>\n<div class=\"line nHR\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">\n<h2>9) Don&#8217;t be afraid to be alone. Feel the peace of solitude.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"nImage\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/wp-content\/images\/post\/user-799\/pj42nf.jpg\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">The fact that you can never be alone is a danger sign. No matter how tight you are with your family or friends, sometimes you need solitude to grow.<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">So try to get somewhere on your own, learn to stand on your own feet.<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">When you are alone you have enough time to know who you are. If you always spend your time with others, you become the product of the people in your life. Sometimes you need to distance yourself from others.<\/div>\n<p><amp-ad width=\"100vw\" height=\"320\" type=\"adsense\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1787826683754973\" data-ad-slot=\"9068969645\" data-auto-format=\"rspv\" data-full-width=\"\"><\/p>\n<div overflow=\"\"><\/div>\n<p><\/amp-ad><\/p>\n<div class=\"line nHR\">\n<hr>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">\n<h2>10) Small decisions have big consequences.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"nImage\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ceotudent.com\/wp-content\/images\/post\/user-799\/baup1h.jpg\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">It won&#8217;t hurt you if you skip working, training, and responsibilities today, right? Or buying a new phone doesn&#8217;t make you poor.<\/div>\n<div class=\"line nText\">Even the smallest decision you make here can affect your life deeply. Life is the result of the small decisions you make. You are defined by what you do every day. This is actually good news. 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